I’m back in full power mode. Living on a higher frequency, my mentality is on another level. To those who still equate an escort with a call girl—fuck all of you. You don’t get it, and you never will. Also, heads up—I’m leaving by the end of June, so if you want to book me, now’s your chance. 5 years on and off was more than enough. And I will finally made it. Thank you.

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Knowing Your Worth: Valuing Yourself Before Setting Your Rates

Before you can determine your rates, you first need to determine your value—not just in terms of numbers, but in the way you see yourself, your mental health, and your self-worth. True confidence in your pricing comes from within, and if you haven’t worked through your self-image, your independence, and your emotional well-being, no number will ever feel truly right. Juat because the clients are saying whay the market rates should be, why would this be so?Especially in 2025, with inflation and we are being precise as my location Ljubljana Slovenia when rents are on another level, more and more wealthy foreign people is moving into the country and I noticed after new year lowering rates here to 200 per hour... Canadain now ex priminister would say. This was a very dumb thing to do. Especially if you wish to position yourself on platforms like Eurogirlsescort for which, let’s be honest it also loses its value where there are ads with low rates - call girl pimped rates. Not independent escort rates. But this not the platform mistake. It is your own. So raise that rate, girl.

Step One: Understanding Your Own Value

Your rates are a direct reflection of how you see yourself. If you undervalue yourself, you will set low rates. If you don’t believe in your worth, you will allow others to dictate your price. The first step is sorting out your self-image—mentally, emotionally, spiritually. When you truly acknowledge your own value, the numbers will follow naturally. It won’t be a struggle; you will simply know. This realization often happens suddenly, as it did for me. Overnight, I saw my own worth, and from that moment, I doubled my rates. I didn’t second-guess myself. I didn’t worry about whether clients would accept it. It was take it or leave it. And that’s the energy you need to cultivate.

Step Two: Independence is Key

Beyond self-worth, financial and personal independence are essential. If you rely on someone else—whether it’s a manager, a so-called “mentor,” or anyone trying to control your decisions—you are not truly in charge of your own value. You need to be in a position where you can say no, walk away, and make choices based on what serves you best. If you are dependent on someone else, they will always influence your pricing, your boundaries, and ultimately, your sense of self-worth.

Step Three: The Rates Reveal Themselves

Once you have clarity in your self-worth and independence, setting rates becomes effortless. You won’t have to ask, “What should I charge?”—you will simply know. Your energy will shift, and with it, your financial expectations. The people who value you will pay, and those who don’t were never meant to be your clients.

Market Analysis and Research—But with Your Own Twist

Yes, market analysis and market research matter. But let’s be real—if you saw another companion successfully raising their rates, what’s stopping you? You can do it, too. Hell, you might even do it better. Never box yourself into a single narrative when it comes to escorting. And never, ever settle for the lower end of it. Define your own lane, and make sure it’s at the top.

A Critical Note: When It’s a Need, Not a Choice

If someone feels like they need to do this work—not because they want to, but because they have no other option—this is a serious problem. No one should be in a position where they are forced into this life due to financial desperation or coercion. If you know someone who is in this situation, report it.

Pimping, in any form, is illegal in Slovenia. This includes not just controlling someone’s work, but also the more insidious methods, such as offering “apartments in downtown” that women pay for in cash under the table. These setups often target foreign women who speak little English and no Slovenian, making them easy to manipulate. If you suspect this is happening, take action—report it immediately to the Slovenian authorities.

Prostitution is seen as both a soul-crushing choice and deeply alluring, making it complex and layered.
Low self-esteem can make the idea of escorting both empowering and intimidating as it quantifies sexual appeal.
Independent escorts historically relied on newspaper ads for clients, showing how the internet has shifted the marketing landscape.
Escorts often feel pressure to provide free content online before receiving payment, impacting their financial independence.
Substance abuse can increase vulnerability to exploitation, highlighting the importance of clear boundaries and self-care in the industry.
Transitioning from low-wage work to escorting can significantly alter one's financial status, yet sex work remains demanding with scant worker rights.

Final Thoughts

Determining your value starts from within. Work on your self-image, build your independence, and then watch as the numbers align with your energy. And always remember: true empowerment means having the freedom to choose—freedom that no one has the right to take away.

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